HMU Academy: Word Craft

About the Class

Language is one of the most potent tools we have for connection, domination, and seduction. Whether you’re crafting a scene, building tension, cultivating desire, or teasing your partner into a mindf*ck, the right words can bring someone through an entire experience without you ever having to lay a hand on them.

This class is a deep dive into the strategic and sensual use of language to amplify power dynamics, create emotional intensity, and explore on multiple levels, from empowerment to shadow play.

We’ll cover: How to choose words that land with impact (and why they matter), Building fantasies that grip and linger, Explicit communication that doesn't K*ll the mood, Crafting aligned language for topping, bottoming, and everything between, Playing with dirty talk, psychological control, and layered suggestion, Using your voice as a tool for energy, rhythm, and emotional pull

Whether you're a whisperer, a degrader, a romantic, or a tease—this class will sharpen your tongue and bring your play to a whole new level.

Equity Pricing

If you identify as BIPOC, a s-worker, or are otherwise financially compromised, please use the code EQUITY25 at check out for a discount.

About Your Instructor

Mx. Fox is a femme domme, kink educator, and relationship & intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience practicing and teaching in the NYC scene. Their work focuses on helping people of all experience levels build confidence, express themselves shamelessly, and create hotter, safer, and more connected play and relationships.

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

Just your mouth, tongue, brain and teeth!

FAQ: what should I wear?

Come as you are

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class is great for folks of all skill levels, from beginner to advanced.

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Solo is totally fine, bringing someone you have a play dynamic with is a helpful option but not necessary.

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