In this workshop we practice ways of communicating explicitly what we're experiencing during various er0tic exchanges. This opens up doors to deeper understanding of each other's experiences, and to being able to play in new and interesting directions, responding directly to what is happening in real time.
Learning methods to communicate while weâre playing can help us to go for what we find s3xy or sparks curiosity, and it can help us to touch in with our embodied desires.
Often when we play we actually donât know so much about what the other person(s) are experiencing. Conversation after play will often reveal that a lot more was going on in the other person(s), but the time to incorporate that knowledge has already passed. But what if you could bring all this knowledge of the otherâs experiences into your exchange during the play itself? For that we need to slow down, find our words to describe our experiences, and ask questions in ways that enhance our shared understandings. This takes practice.
In this workshop, we will explore how to share our experiences during er0tic exchanges, by stripping away any narrative that may exist either consciously or subconsciously. We will practice exploring and enquiring into each otherâs er0tic experiences, and using this knowledge to shape play. Through this practice we hope to help you find deeper and more interesting avenues of play.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
This is for you if:
- Youâre curious about new ways of having more interesting and deeper er0tic play sessions
- Youâre curious about understanding others and your own experience and desires better
- Youâre open to explore this with various kinds of people
This is NOT for you if
- Sharing your experience and vulnerability is not your thing.
- Youâre only out to try to hook up with someone
CAN I JOIN AS A BEGINNER?
Yes, if you are comfortable being in a s* inclusive space, being around other people's er0tic interactions, and already understand basic concepts of consent and negotiation.
DO I NEED A PARTNER?
You can come alone, in pairs or as a group. The exercises will be practical, physical, and hands-on, though you are encouraged to go very slow, and the slower the better.. Youâll be invited to work with different people in various combinations throughout the workshop, but of course you should only work with people you feel comfortable with. You are welcome to work primarily with the partner(s) you come with (if you do), but we think the practice can also be easier to learn with new people, so we invite you to try both.
DRESSCODE
Wear something comfortable that you can move around freely in, and which enhances your own sexual energies. Please no ordinary street wear.
WHAT TO BRING
An open mind, and a towel/sheet to put under you (mandatory).
Any toys you might want to use.
TIMES
Doors open at 18:30, we start at 19:00 after which time you canât join, so donât be late.
We end at 22:00
TICKETS
240 kr for members
300 kr for non-members
Tickets are non-refundable.
Be sure to read our cancellation policy and no-show fee here:
https://www.houseofplay.dk/terms-and-conditions
CODE OF CONDUCT
Before showing up to any of our activities, please make sure to read and follow the House of Play Code of Conduct
https://www.houseofplay.dk/code-of-conduct.
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ABOUT THE FACILITATOR
Dunbear is a hedonist and practitioner of sex magic. They have been hosting play parties and sex positive workshops in Copenhagen since 2016, and are a co-creator of Kinky Salon Copenhagen, one of the cityâs most colorful sex positive parties. Dunbear has an exploratory and expansive approach to BDSM, seeking to emphasize the playful nature of sex. This makes House of Play a natural fit for them. They prioritize community building, and see sexual liberation as a tool to undermine the abstraction and isolation of capitalist society, gender norms, patriarchy, and the meaninglessness of daily life.
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