Ditch the Apps: Charlotte's Compatibility-Based Dating Event (26 - 49)

✨ IMPORTANT: Don’t skip the when you grab your ticket—it's how we work our matchmaking magic.

Age Range: Mid-20s through 40sVibe: Chill. No swiping. No awkward pressure. Just real people, real conversations, and maybe… real sparks?

Sick of apps that make dating feel like a part-time job?Tired of ghosting, dead-end IMs, and profiles that don’t match the energy IRL? Same. That’s why we created this event—to bring singles together in person for something a little more human and a lot more fun.

This isn’t a cattle call of small talk. It's a curated experience designed to help you connect quickly and meaningfully—without the cringe.

• We pair you with compatible people using your questionnaire answers (yes, we’re low-key Cupid).
• You’ll mix and mingle through playful ice-breakers and group games that don’t feel like a corporate training.
• You’ll have thoughtful convo prompts that go deeper than “So, what do you do?”
• Oh, and did we mention cocktails? The vibe is relaxed lounge, not speed-date panic room.

• Group placement tailored to your personality and preferences
• Fun games + a round of human bingo (trust us, it’s a hit)
• Prompts that help you skip the small talk and go straight to the good stuff
• Discount codes for future events (because your journey might take more than one night!)

Come solo, leave with new connections—friends, flirts, maybe even future +1s. This isn’t about putting on a show. Just bring your real self, an open mind, and maybe a cute outfit.

🎟️ Limited spots available for quality convos.🕐 Event runs 1 hour and 30 minutes.⏳ Ticket sales close 2 hours before we start.⚠️ Eventbrite fees are non-refundable.💌 Compatibility Questionnaire = must-do. We can’t seat you without it!

Friendly Heads-Up on Age & Match Vibes:This event is for singles ages 25–49, which means the crowd is a fun mix—but we’ve noticed a trend: gents in their 40s often come in hoping to meet women a bit younger (especially if they're still in the “maybe someday… kids?” phase). So, if you're a fabulous woman in your late 40s who's already rocked the parenting thing or is past that chapter, just know the dating pool here might feel a little shallow. You might actually have a better time—and better luck—at our 45–65 event, where everyone's swimming in the same life-stage waters.

Let’s keep the energy right, the convos flowing, and the vibes high. A few things to know before we get started:

🕒 Be on time – This is a connection experience, and we kick things off as a group.📵 Be present – Your phone can wait. The hottie in front of you? Not so much.💛 Be kind, always – Not feeling a spark? No biggie. Just be gracious👗 Dress to express – Look nice, feel nice. This isn’t a black-tie gala, but have your outfit say, “I made an effort"🧠 Get curious – Ask creative questions, share your story, and really listen. You might be surprised what you learn.🗣️ Have your intro game ready – Think about what you’d want someone to remember about you.🎉 Relax and have fun – Everyone’s here for the same reason: connection. No pressure, just possibility.

✋ Speak up – If someone says or does something off, let a host know. We’ve got your back.🚫 No tolerance for creepy vibes – Offensive or inappropriate behavior = automatic no-go.📱 Don’t push for digits – If you want to stay in touch, offer your number. Let them decide if the feeling’s mutual. Consent is hot.

Heads-up: we may snap some pics or shoot short videos during the event. By attending, you’re cool with us using these for future promos, ads, or social media glow-ups. If you’d rather not be featured, just let us know—we respect your boundaries.

About Filled Cups:

Filled Cups is on a mission to get people out of isolation so they can build relationships that fill their cups. We started in 2024 so we're still evolving our frameworks and learning from our events.

If you're interested in friend-matching, check out our organizer page. You can also connect with us on our website and socials:

Filledcups.com

Instagram - Tiktok - Facebook Page

Charlotte Facebook Groups: Singles - Friends

What past participants are saying about our events:

"I like the concept. The games made it easier to have conversations. It was a creative, inexpensive way to spend a Friday night and meet new people."

"This event was really fun and reduced the pressure of meeting new people. I will definitely attend again "

"I enjoyed the event. I liked that it was relaxed and intimate. "

"I love the survey beforehand, and enjoyed the opportunity to mix and mingle beyond the tables/groups we were assigned to."

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