fluid4fluid Edition at Curly Bar

what do you mean with fluid4fluid?!?

i guess interpretations can be a bit fluid-flexible ;)

the name is inspired by masc4masc, femme4femme and butch4butch not knowing to which event i should go - when i told S. about it we realised how it sounded though - like exchanging fluids 🤭

so it is not clear clear if this is a hook up or dating event but rather expecting fluidity in most aspects in life - maybe be open for anything?

I will check in in the beginning of the evening with my fav imaginary spectrum games

and yes, this evening is for anyone feeling a tingly yess wanting to join, feeling a bit or very fluid in their gender identity 🌈

❤️momo will open the evening with a short introduction and then invite you to place yourself along an imaginary spectrum regarding your preferences to find the peeps with similar interests & view points.

After around one hour you are invited to free flow, to continue connecting to those who caught your attention or to simply enjoy another drink at the bar. Let`s have a cozy and cute evening together!

🍹Open from 7pm, we start at max. 7.30pm.💸

How much is it?

Please donate between 5 - 10 - 15 Euros based on your current financial situation - sliding scales require collective responsability balancing each others realities out. Means if you have a regular income and/or savings to donate more so I can continue doing these events. If that is currently not possible for you please write me - I will never return anyone for lack of funds! :)

Accessibility?There is a ramp to enter, the entrance door is about 90cm wide. There is no Wheelchair accessible toilet. (We can send photos of the toilet upon request).We expect this event to be rather sound intense with a maximum of 20 participants in one room. You can take a break in the first room or outside at any time

.🇬🇧🇩🇪Languagemomo speaks English and German but will host the event in English. You can ask questions at any time!

👤About the facilitatormomo‘s (momo/they) biggest passion is to connect Quirky Quings ~ so basically anyone who doesn’t fit the norm. They initiated @charming.theys as an alternative to binary dating formats as well as trying to do things a bit different to usual speed dating events so also cuties who struggle with social interactions feel more comfortable. momo is agender, highly sensitive, white & queer. They work actively on dismantling internalized -isms and -phobias, any form of discrimination is not welcome in their spaces.If you have any requests regarding accessibility, questions or need a clearer description please write to aGkgfCBjaGFybWluZ3RoZXlzICEgZGVXZQ== would love to hear from you!momo & the Curly Bar Team

Testimonials from past Dating Events

"Momo, thank you so much for yesterday! You’re such an amazing facilitator. As someone who’s quite introverted and often struggles with meeting new people, I can’t thank you enough for creating such a warm and welcoming environment—it made me completely forget my usual worries. I had a wonderful night, connected with so many interesting people, and left feeling wholesome and empowered. Truly grateful!"

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"Momo creates inviting, warm, non-judgemental spaces that are open to *everyone*.

They use humor, playfulness, and creativity to provide a fun evening and facilitate thoughtful interactions with others. Even their open embrace of their own awkwardness lightens that feeling in the rest of us!

And for their dating events: these are not your typical speed-dating nightmares with stressful interactions answering the same boring questions; through the clever use of pre-chosen questions and several creative ways to allow the participants to sort themselves,

Momo facilitates a much more interesting and relaxing evening of more meaningful interactions. I recently attended their Bi dating event in Curly Bar (yes an actual Bi dating event!), and I was happy to see all genders represented.

Momo is also aware of and concerned with providing spaces that are inclusive to those with neurodivergence and disabilities. Though not every space where they host is able to meet everyone's needs, Momo is conscientious, considerate, and strives to host events that are as inclusive as possible (and will communicate any limitations ahead of time.)

All in all, I found Momo to be a wonderful host and facilitator, and I hope as many people get to experience their events as possible!"

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" I have been to several events, facilitated and organized by Momo. I have been to queer and non-binary dating events, and I think the common thread throughout all of them is the sense of safety that I felt being in those spaces with Momo at the helm.

They offer a calmness and a quiet strength in their presentation skills that makes me feel more comfortable being open and vulnerable in those spaces. Additionally, I feel the types of events and the types of communities Momo is speaking to are all underserved and in need of their thoughtful, creativity and attention.

I always make it a point to go to an event if I know that Momo will be facilitating!"

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