Men's Circle ONLINE: A Space for Connection, Growth & Support - 3rd Monday of the month 6-7pm

MENS CIRCLE - ONLINE: A Space for Connection Growth and Support

When & Where:

Date: Every 3rd Monday of the month

Time: 6-7pm

Location: ONLINE ZOOM - The link is emailed directly to you

Cost: Donations of £10 £15 or £20 - Suggested donation of £15.

Or contact the organiser if this is not affordable.

In person events are also available in Oakwood London on the 2nd Monday of the month 6-7pm - please see separate allevents booking link - https://allevents.in/london/80003392185463

In person events are also available in Southampton on the First Friday of the month - please contact the organiser for more details.

All profits go to charity or to support other Men's Circles.

Organiser: Facilitated by Jason Wakefield of Holistic J & David Alley

Are you looking for a supportive community of like-minded men who understand your journey? Whether you're navigating life’s challenges seeking personal growth need help with addictions or simply craving authentic connection - Our Men’s Circle is here for you.

What We Offer:

• A Safe Non-Judgmental Space: Share openly listen deeply and be heard without fear of criticism or judgment.
• Personal Growth: Explore topics such as mental health relationships career and purpose all in a nurturing environment.
• Authentic Brotherhood: Build meaningful connections with other men who are committed to supporting each other’s growth.
• Emotional Wellness: Develop tools to manage stress anxiety and life’s pressures in a way that works for you.

Why Join?

• Strength in Vulnerability: It's okay to not have all the answers. Together we grow by being real and sharing openly.
• Deepen Your Self-Awareness: Understand yourself better through meaningful conversations and reflections.
• Broaden Your Support Network: Gain new perspectives friendships and a tribe that truly gets it.

1) AGENDA

1.Opening and Grounding

2.Review Circle Agreements

3.Check-In Round

4.Main Sharing

5.Reflection and Support

6.Accountability and Intention Setting

7.Closing Ritual 

2) Group Rules and Guidance:

MENS CIRCLE - A men's circle is a space where men can come together to share, listen, and support each other in a safe and non-judgmental environment. The rules are guidelines, designed to foster trust, respect, and open communication:

1. Confidentiality is important so we feel safe to share openly, without fear or judgement - What is shared in the circle stays in the circle.

2. Listen with Respect, Allow Space for others to share and be Non-Judgmental

3. Speak with authenticity, your truth and your feelings if possible – Speak from the Heart Not the Head

4. Only One Person Speaks at a Time – you will be invited to speak, raise your hand or a talking stick will be physically/virtually handed round

5. Actively Listen without Interrupting and give your undivided Attention to others

6. Be Brief and Focused staying on topic, so conversations can flow

7. No Fixing or Giving Advice (Unless Asked)

8. Respect Boundaries if others don’t want to share or disclose anything that they are uncomfortable with

9. Allow Space for Silence

10. Support each other, its not about comparing or competition

11. Be Accountable for your own words, actions or promises made

12. Embrace Diversity

13. We like to encourage and support a sober environment of No Alcohol or Drugs

14. Participation and sharing is Voluntary so its okay to be silent

15. Gratitude is usually used at the beginning or end of each session

These guidelines can help create a foundation for a meaningful and supportive men's circle. The overall goal is to cultivate a space for emotional growth, mutual respect, and healing through connection with other men.

CO FACILITATOR - David Alley

David Left school at the age of 15 years, and became a messager boy in the Post Office. He then did a 5-year apprenticeship in engineering, working in Aerospace. After the division closure he was made redundant at the age of 45. He opened a self-employed business in computer systems, Ran a Hair & Beauty salon with his daughter. He also became a registered hypnotherpist and his business now is “Intergated Health therapies”. As he has studied new an old methods of health and wellbeing for the last 25 years.

THE ORGANISER & CO FACILITATOR - Jason Wakefield of Holistic J - Holistic Wellness Coach & Therapist

Fully insured and Registered with the IPHM and UK Reiki Federation

MIND

Diploma and Level 2 in Counselling

Level 2 in Mens Mental Health Awareness

Coach - Life, Holistic, Spiritual, Couples & Emotional Intelligence Coach

Meditation Teacher

CMC - Civil & Conmercial Mediator

BODY

Swedish Massage Therapist

Somatic Bioenergetic (bodywork) Advanced Therapist and Teacher

Chakra Yoga Teacher - Yoga Alliance

Breathwork Teacher - Yoga Alliance

ENERGY

UK Reiki Federation - Reiki Master & Teacher

Shamanic Healer

Crystal Healing Therapist

Sound Healing Therapist

Oracle Card Reader

EMOTIONS/HEART

Emotional Intelligence Coach

Cacao Ceremony - Mastery Facilitator

EFT Practitioner (student)