Poly Seeking Anchors at Nonmonogameetup by Second Glances

Looking to spot kindred spirits at Oakland’s monthly Nonmonogameetup?
We’ll be there with a simple, opt‑in matchmaking twist:

We’re bringing two styles of name tags: one signals “I’m looking for an anchor/primary partner,” the other says “I’m not currently seeking an anchor partner (or prefer not to say).” Choose a tag if it helps break the ice—or skip it entirely and mingle as usual.

📅 Monday, May 12
⏰ 7 – 10 PM (drop in any time)
📍 Zanzi Oakland — 19 Grand Ave, Oakland, CA 94612
💸 Free • 21+ • No ticket or RSVP required

Want to connect to other people who are coming? RSVP to our Plura event.

• A lively crowd of polyamorous, ENM, and poly‑curious people.
• Zero pressure—name tags are optional, conversation is casual.
• Second Glances hosts on‑site to answer questions about future socials, hikes, and our structured speed‑dating events.

• Anyone practicing or exploring consensual non‑monogamy.
• Both anchor‑seekers and folks happy as they are.
• All genders, orientations, and relationship configurations welcome.

Note: Nonmonogameetup has kindly invited Second Glances to add this lightweight activity, but we’re not official co‑hosts of the event. Check out their plura event for Nonmonogameetup here:

Come grab a tag (or don’t) and meet new faces in a relaxed, community‑minded setting. See you Monday!