✨ Softer Dating: The Art of Meeting Without Expectations ✨
What if dating didn’t have to be about “finding the one”? What if, instead, it was about finding shared moments of being alive, being real, and simply meeting another person?
At this Softer Dating event, we’re not here to “match” you with someone. We’re here to create space for connection to happen.
Our wish is to offer an alternative to online dating and speed-dating.
An antidote to the current dating culture which many experience as unsatisfying and even toxic.
We invite you to join in this collective experiment in slowing down, stepping into the present moment, and rediscovering the magic of simply being with others.
Here’s what you won’t find:
💬 No formulas. Forget the pre-written bios, the rehearsed lines, or the pressure to impress.
🔍 No expectations. No “what’s your job?” or “where do you see yourself in 5 years?” Just real questions that invite curiosity.
⚡ No rush. Just a slow, intentional space where the act of being together becomes the point.
What you will find:
🌿 Presence. A space where your attention is fully on the here and now, on the subtle energy between you and someone else.
✨ Intimacy. Experience the comfort of meaningful touch—like a warm hug, holding hands, or feeling the reassuring presence of another—creating connection and trust without expectation.
☺️ The gift of being witnessed. To see and be seen, in your human complexity.
This evening isn’t about finding someone—it’s about remembering what it feels like to be with someone. It’s about remembering that connection isn’t a transaction—it’s an experience.
📍 Where: Shamballa Space,
Ny Østergade 7, 1101 KBH K.
⏳ When: May 16th
🫂Who: 30-ish people who are open for connection.
All genders and sexualities welcome.
💸 Price sliding scale:
⭐️200 kr low income (for people with no/low income)
⭐️⭐️300 kr regular (if you don't have to think twice about going ot for a drink, this is for you)
⭐️⭐️⭐️400 kr support ticket (this option supports our work and allows us to offer the low income option. Thank you!)
Come, leave behind the expectations. Bring your full self, and meet likeminded others.
💌 RSVP:
https://forms.gle/hHWefvv1AbtRPApQ9
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