Speed Dating: Ethically Non Monogamous Night

Ethically Non Monogamous Speed Dating
Every Third Monday at Planted Cafe
6:30 to 8:00 PM for folks 30-55 / 8:30 to 10:00 PM for folks 22-35
If you're in the window, feel free to sign up for both! 😉

Connection comes in many beautiful forms, and we celebrate them all. Our Ethical Non-Monogamy speed dating events create a judgment-free space where polyamorous, relationship anarchist, and ENM folks can meet others who understand that love isn't a zero-sum game. Whether you're solo poly, partnered and dating, part of a polycule looking to expand your network, or new to ENM and seeking community, you'll find a welcoming crowd that gets it. Our attendees represent the full spectrum of ethical non-monogamy – from kitchen table poly to parallel dating styles, from relationship anarchists to those in hierarchical structures.

In our intimate, plant-filled sanctuary, you can be authentically yourself without having to explain your relationship philosophy or justify your choices. These are conversations between people who already understand that love multiplies rather than divides, that compersion is real, and that communication and consent are the foundations of healthy connections. Connect with potential romantic partners, metamours, or simply expand your chosen family with people who share your values around honesty, communication, and ethical relationship practices. Our diverse, thoughtful community creates the perfect environment for meaningful connections to take root and flourish.


What to Expect:
- Intimate setting with 12-16 participants
- 7-minute speed dates in our beautifully lit space
- Specialty cocktails and mocktails available
- Inclusive, welcoming atmosphere for all identities
- Optional post-event mingling

Maybe today is the day you meet someone special. Maybe today changes everything.

Location: Planted Cafe, 333 Smith Street, Carroll Gardens
Investment: $35 (includes one drink)

Reserve your spot - these intimate events fill up fast!
Part of our 'Maybe Today' Mondays of Speed Dating events for folks in Brooklyn's LGBTQ+ Community.