Men’s Circle: Honest Conversations & Connection
In a society where men are expected to always have it together, this space is for being honest, not perfect.
This is a free offering but there’s the option to stay for an amazing plant-based dinner ($15). There’s no pressure to join, but sitting down to eat together is a simple, powerful way to deepen the sense of connection. Andre isn’t running this circle for profit and he’s genuinely invested in creating real, meaningful spaces for men to connect.
The Men’s Circle is a gathering where men are able to connect in a safe, supportive space to share experiences, express emotions, and foster personal growth. Free from societal expectations of stoicism or self-sufficiency. Through open sharing and mutual support, participants are empowered to build resilience, self-reflection, and a stronger sense of identity and purpose.
Structure of the Circle
Gathering in a Circle: Participants sit in a circle to symbolize equality and unity.
A short meditation or moment of silence may be included to help everyone arrive and connect.
Talking Object: A sharing stick or object is placed in the center. Only the person
holding the object may speak, ensuring uninterrupted sharing.
Open Sharing: Anyone may choose to share while holding the object. Sharing is op-
tional, and passing is always respected.
Active Listening: While one person shares, others listen attentively without speaking,
interrupting, or offering advice. The focus is on witnessing and being present.
No Judgments or Advice: Participants refrain from judging or offering unsolicited
advice, creating a safe space for authentic expression.
Closing: The circle may conclude with a group reflection, a moment of gratitude, or a simple acknowledgment of the shared experience.
Circle Agreements
Supportive Environment: We are here to uplift and support one another, fostering
trust and brotherhood.
Focus on the Present: Share whats alive for you now, focusing on your emotions and experiences to deepen emotional awareness.
Use "I" Statements: Speak from your personal perspective using "I" statements to
promote authenticity and responsibility. Avoid generalizations like "we" or "us."
No Judgment or fixing: Refrain from judging others sharing or offering unsolicited
advice, ensuring a safe and non-critical space.
Confidentiality: What is shared in the circle stays in the circle. You may discuss your own experience outside the group, but keep others details private.
Meet Andre, your host
Andre has been immersed in men’s work since the age of 13, when he first experienced a rite of passage in Golden Bay. That formative experience sparked a lifelong connection to circle work, which he later deepened by returning as a mentor. Over the years, Andre has come to value the power of sitting in circle—of men coming together in honesty, vulnerability, and presence to witness and support one another.
A multi-instrumental musician, poet, and pranayama (breathwork) facilitator, Andre also brings his passion for ecstatic dance, philosophy, and authentic connection into his offerings. He is deeply inspired by the question of what it means to be human—how we can more fully experience our aliveness, our depth, and reconnecting with the beauty of life together.
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Booking for Thursday is recommended!
For more details and to book please go here--
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Make Thursdays your night to connect and take a break from your week. Events range from creative workshops, wellness courses to entertaining experiences. All within a down-to-earth and welcoming space. Each event wraps up with a plant-based dinner and dessert.
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Bhakti Lounge
1/175 Vivian Street
Wellington
bhaktilounge.org.nz
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