Open Community Potluck & Discussion

Come share stories, build connections, and meet new friends in a welcoming space centered on authentic, intentional, open-hearted relationships in community.

This community values consent, honesty, authenticity, vulnerability, kindness, acceptance, and accountability.

You don’t have to be dating, or practicing any particular relationship style — if these values resonate with you, you’re invited.

By attending this event, you agree to read and abide by these community guidelines.

- Expect to encounter a variety of relationship styles, orientations, gender expressions, and life experiences.

-Comfort levels around touch, storytelling, and boundaries will vary.

-What we all have in common is an interest in cultivating intentional and authentic relationships.

-You are invited to be curious—ask questions, listen, learn, and share.

-You are invited — but not required — to hold space for others and for yourself.

-Holding space means letting people speak their truth and exist as they are, without assumptions, judgment, advice, or pressure to fix anything.

-Sometimes this is the only place where someone gets to simply be.

-You are invited to listen with presence and empathy.

CONSENT ✅

-A “yes” means yes. A “no,” silence, “maybe,” or hesitation means no.

-If you hear no, respect it without needing an explanation.

-A yes now doesn’t automatically mean a yes later — ongoing consent matters and can always change.

-You may see hugging, cuddling, or kissing—and people saying yes to some and no to others.

-Always ask before entering someone’s personal space. For example: “Would you like a hug?” or “May I sit next to you?”

-If you want, you can offer alternative connections: “I’m no to a hug, but yes to a high five or handshake.”

-Some people here are open to sharing everything, while others prefer to keep explicit or personal stories private.

-Please pause to ask the people around you before sharing explicit stories (sex, kink, BDSM) without consent.

-Everything shared in this group should be treated as confidential and private.

-Do not share stories that name others without their permission.

-Do not greet people outside this group in a way that could out them.

-Do not take or share photos/videos without the clear consent of everyone who would be photographed.

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TICKETS 🎟️

An Eventbrite ticket is required to attend—

If cost would keep you from attending, see the NOTAFLOF policy at the bottom of the description.

RSVP ON PLURA

You are encouraged to also . It’s not required, but it lets everyone know you’re attending, adds you to the event chat, and helps make connections.

REMINDER: Plura RSVP does not hold your spot — Eventbrite ticket is needed for each attendee.

LOCATION

This event is being hosted at a private residence in Sunnyvale, CA. Address will be shared in the confirmation email.

Do not share the address without permission from a host. Direct all address requests to Rose.

HOSTS

Rose and John

ACCESSIBILITY

There are two steps at the front door. Stairs lead to the second floor (optional). There are also steps down to the back patio and garden. Doorways and pathways are generally wide enough for mobility devices, but please note: the space can get crowded, which may make wheelchair navigation challenging.

PETS

No Pets living here. Service animals welcome.

WHEN ARE THINGS HAPPENING?

If it’s your first time attending, arriving on time for the opening circle is essential. If you’ll be late and miss the opening circle, please reschedule. Returning attendees, let a host or others know if you’ll be late.

7:00 – 8:00 PM | Socializing & Potluck Dinner

8:00 – 8:15 PM | Opening Circle (Community Agreements & Topic)

8:15 – 9:15 PM | Small Group Discussions

9:15 – 9:30 PM | Closing Circle

9:30 - 10:00 PM | Freestyle Socializing

DISCUSSION TOPIC

What beliefs about love or relationships are you actively unlearning in your current connection(s)? And what has that process been like?

What are your signals that you are nearing relational capacity and how do you respond?

What does polysaturated look and feel like for you and/or your partner and how do you navigate that?

What is a rupture or mistake that you have made in relationship(s) that has taught you something essential and changed the way you have moved forward in subsequent relationships?

What are you still wanting to get better at in your current relationships? (doesn’t have to be limited to romantic relationships).

POTLUCK FOOD

This is a dinnertime potluck—please bring food or drinks to share. Home-cooked or takeout is welcome. Gluten-free and low-sugar options are often appreciated, and wholesome, filling dishes are always a great choice.

Please write in the Plura chat what you will be bringing in the days before the event.

PARKING

Street parking. Temporarily hovering at the base of the driveway is allowed for drop offs, otherwise please park on the street. Parking in the nearby corner parking lot is allowed for non-overnight parking.

DRINKING/SMOKING

No smoking or vaping tobacco anywhere on the property. Cannabis products can be used in moderation in the backyard. Alcohol is BYOB and should be consumed responsibly and in moderation, as it is not the focus of the event.

OPTIONAL DONATIONS

If you would like to show your support and gratitude to the organizer, and support the ongoing sustainability of these events, here are two options:

1) Purchase a donation ticket for the amount of your choosing, instead of the default paid ticket. A donation ticket counts as one ticket.

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NOTAFLOF POLICY (No One Turned Away For Lack Of Funds)

If the price of a ticket would keep you from attending for any reason, including "I don't feel like paying for a ticket today", use the promo code FREE at checkout for this event or future events - no questions asked.

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