Spicy Speed Dating for Queer Femmes & Thems

Looking to make new connections while exploring different perspectives on identity, relationships, sexuality, and pleasure?

If you're queer and interested in dating women, non-binary, and trans folks, then this event is for you!

Let’s come together for a night of meeting new people, making friends, and maybe even finding a spicy spark or two.

The Details:

This unique speed dating event is consent-based, full of laughter, and features sexuality-related questions from Come Again?! - a conversational card game designed to spark meaningful connections while having lots of fun. You’ll rotate through different connections and cards, with plenty of breaks and surprise activities sprinkled in!

Just looking for friends? We still want you to come!

This event is not just for dating. You’ll be able to indicate what you’re looking for (friendships, dating, etc.) and everyone will be given guidelines for respecting boundaries.

No matter what you’re into, our goal is for you to feel safe and respected, and to have fun!

This event is for you if:

• You identify a woman, non-binary, or trans and are interested in dating others with these identities.
• You're interested in connecting on topics of identity, sexuality, and pleasure
• You thrive in spaces where queerness is celebrated and centered.
• You’re ready for a fun, spicy, unforgettable night out!
• Although there is no age limit to this event, the average age tends to be mid-20s to early 30s. If you're above 35 and want to date others in that age range, stay tuned for our next Queer Speed Dating event for those 35+ !

What exactly is Come Again?!

Come Again?! is a playful, educational, and trauma-informed conversation card game. With 150 thought-provoking questions, Come Again?! invites you to take a deep dive into identity, sexuality, relationships, pleasure, sex, and kink. Learn more here.

Event Details:

• Date: Tuesday, December 16th, 2025.
• Time: 7:00 - 9:00pm. Doors at 6:45pm.
• Where: Stoup Brewing - Capitol Hill Location
• Cost: $15 (discounted tickets are available upon request, just email us!)
• You can bring your own food into the brewery and/or buy from the local food truck
• Bathrooms are all-gender
• Age requirements: 21+
• Accessibility: ADA accessible, but all seats are stools that are higher than average chairs. If you need a table that is wheelchair accessible, or a chair with a back, please let us know and we will be sure to set up a space that works for you.

About the Hosts:

Naomi Price-Lazarus (she/her) is a Sexuality Educator, facilitator, and Founder of Papaya Project, a non-profit that provides comprehensive sex education to youth and adults. Naomi also creates and sells art that celebrates sexual anatomy and pleasure (Super Clit). Naomi spends her free time playing sports, baking cookies, and doing solidarity activism with Palestinian communities the West Bank. Follow Naomi @PapayaProjectOrg.

Addison Scales (she/her) is joining in a special co-host! Addison is a health educator with a passion for queer-inclusive sexual and reproductive health. She loves creating supporting spaces where folks of all ages can get curious about themselves and others.

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