HMU Academy: Daddy Dom Daycare

About the Class

Wondering if the roles of D*minant, s*bmissive, Daddy, Mommy, or baby might apply to you?

In this workshop with pro-D*m Goddess Gem, we'll explore power exchange relationships with a special focus on caregiving dynamics (i.e. DD/lg, etc.). We'll discuss archetypes and myths, how to negotiate, the intersections of kink and mental health, potential challenges and more. This is a space where you'll be welcome to share your experiences and troubleshoot roadblocks from your own journey. You'll learn how to step into your D*minance or s*bmission and build rewarding connections based on a nurturing dynamic.

We’ll discuss:

• How do you know if a caregiving dynamic is for you?
• What struggles might come up when building a power exchange dynamic?
• What is the nuance between k!nk and power exchange?
• How can I better a better D*m or sub?
• How do you grow this type of dynamic outside of the bedroom?
• What is age regression? Is it a required part of DDlg? (Spoiler alert on this one, no, it’s not required!)
  
  CG/l dynamics aren't just for hetero or cisgender folks! Gender non-conforming folks welcome, singles too.
  
  This is a lecture and discussion based workshop. Beginner to intermediate level.
  
  Content warning: There will be discussion of age regression and trauma.

About Your Instructor

The Goddess Gemini aka Gem (she/they) is a queer New York City pro-D*mme, lifestyle k!nkster and play party producer. They have experience on both sides of the slash (D*minant and s*bmissive) and a passion for B*SM, k!nk education, and helping others expand their erot!c worldview. Follow her on Instagram @gemini.w0rld

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

Bring paper and pen to take notes if you like, but the slides will be sent out afterwards.

FAQ: what should I wear?

Doesn't matterFAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

Beginner + Intermediate

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Can attend solo

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