HMU Academy: Embrace Your K*nky Self

This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.

You've figured it out -- you're k*nky! Let's understand what you already like and discover even more things that you might enjoy. This is a great 101 or 102 class!In this class, learn:

• What is a k*nk? What is a fet!sh? How can they overlap?
• How to figure out what other things you could like based on what you already know.
• What biases do you have about certain k*nks/fet!shes? Where did they come from?
• How can you convert negative biases to neutral or positive biases?
• How you can get started embodying your k*nks and fet!shes covertly or overtly – everyday or as often as you like.
• How to explore the mind-body connection of k*nks and fet!shes.
• How to uncover your k*nky origin story and convey it to others.
• How to talk to folx about your k*nks.
• How you can evoke emotions/k*nks/fet!shes in yourself and other consenting people (from empowerment to humiliation – there's something for everyone!)

This is an organized class that incorporates visuals and explanations (PowerPoint and demonstrations), an extensive worksheet, and facilitated class discussions (the discussions always get positive feedback from attendees). You'll meet new friends in this class!

About the Instructor

Knotasha (she/her) is a s*x educator and fet!sh model who has been actively in the k*nk scene for over a decade. She has taught and co-taught at venues and k*nky conventions such as HitMeUp Academy, K*nk dot com, Soho House, Westcoast Bound, KinkFest, Thunder in the Mountains, and DomCon. Knotasha loves showcasing the nuance and spectrum of k*nks so folx realize they're not alone in their desires. Knotasha also loves giving folx plenty of tools and tips so they can explore at their own pace.

IG / X: KnotashaNYC

FAQs

FAQ: what should I bring?

A notebook and a pen/pencil. You'll get a worksheet but it helps to have more room to write.

FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)

This class offers something for everyone.

FAQ: what should I wear?

Streetwear.

FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?

Come on your own, with a friend, or with partner(s)! You'll also meet new friends in this class with facilitated class discussions.

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