Bi-curious / Bi-furious PARTY

Back as a PARTY - an intentional space for connection, sharing, exploration, and expansion - whether you are bi-curious or bi-furious!

About this Event

It all started with one Bi-curious workshop. Then, we returned with Bi-curious / Bi-furious, which cemented the need for intentional spaces for folks to connect, share perspectives, and explore and expand their horizons together. And now… we present to you… the biggest edition yet - AND IT’S GOING TO BE A PARTY!

Whether you’re joining us for the first time or returning for more— whether you are just a tad bi-curious or fervently bi-furious - this event was made for YOU 🥰. Newcomers will be welcomed into a supportive space for exploration, while returning attendees can deepen their journey, explore new horizons, and share insights. Expect laughs, connection, vulnerability, and hot shenanigans!

After the Connection Circle, the lights go down, the music goes up, and the setting transforms into playful spaces where you can connect and explore. Engage at your own comfort level—whether that means observing, casually chatting by the snacks, or cavorting with others.

We’ve also planned a slate full of exciting activities intentionally crafted to inspire your most unforgettable adventures yet. Let the Bi Bliss begin! ✨

🩷💜💙 One thing is for sure - everyone leaves queerer than they came. 🌈

📝 On the (Queer) Agenda:

Your ticket grants you access to:

1. 🫂Connection Circle: Nix will facilitate discussion and sharing perspectives on various topics around exploring sexuality. This may include: Navigating common fears & internalized shame, Best practices for exploration & integration, Do’s and Don’ts, Queer Awakening Stories, and more!
2. 🧑‍🏫 $lutty Skill-share: Like an open-mic, the floor will be open for folks to give 5 minute presentations on ways to give pleasure - meant to spark ideas, build skill, and increase confidence. (If you know you’d like to present ahead of time, feel free to send in diagrams / powerpoint for the projector! Yes, really - we know how serious some of you are!)
3. 💋 Ki$$ing Booth: you can either get in line or sit in the hot-seat (as always, consent guidelines apply)
4. 🦄Event-Exclusive Truth or Dare: Gather around for a version of Truth or Dare specifically designed to bring out your queerest confessions… or dare to try something new!
5. 💬 Discord Channel - get to know each other ahead of the event!
6. 🍇 Party Snacks - an abundant spread of delights
7. 🎧 Curated Playlists – relive the energy and emotion of the event any time.
8. 🧑‍💻 Integration Call – one last get-together to share stories and reflections one week after the event

Note about Terminology, Labels, and Being Open-Minded:

1. We use the terms “Bi-curious”, “Bisexual” as catch-all terms and simplicity in marketing. This workshop is for anyone exploring attraction heteronormativity or outside what they’ve known before. Whether you identify as bicurious, bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, demisexual, abrasexual, heteroflexible, fluid, asexual, heteroromantic, all of the above or none of the above…(the list goes on) — you are welcome here.
2. We also acknowledge that not everyone has had the opportunity to learn terminology about gender and sexuality. For some, even the practice of sharing pronouns is new. We ask that attendees extend grace to each other, keep an open mind, and treat this as a learning space.
3. This is an intentional space for vulnerability. Psychological safety is not the absence of discomfort but the ability to take interpersonal risk without fear of consequence. That being said - discomfort is not an excuse for disrespect - our host and guardians will enforce community guidelines at their discretion.

Tickets

1. Early Bird (limited supply): $65
2. Tier 1 (ends July 30th): $70
3. Tier 2 (ends August 29th): $75
4. Tier 3 (same-day at-the-door ONLY): $80

Prices increase as tiers sell out—don’t wait! Save from the $80 same-day price by securing your ticket ahead of time!

There are NO REFUNDS for this event - if you cannot make it, please gift or sell your ticket to a worthy soul. To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close.

About your Host, Nix

Nix the Sirenatrix is an Event Producer and Educator at Pagans Paradise simply doing her part to spread the Queer Agenda.

EVENT DETAILS

🕗 Doors Open: 7:30 PM (Doors close at 8:00 PM)

🕗 Connection Circle: 8:00PM - 10:00 PM

🕗 Special Bi-conic Performance: 10:00PM

🕗 Safety Speech: 10:15PM

🕗 SIutty Skill-share: 11:00PM - 12:00AM

🕗 Ki$$ing Booth opens: 12:00AM

🕗 Truth or Dare: 12:30AM

🕗 Event Ends: 3:00 AM

📍 Location: Near Union Square (Full address provided in your confirmation email)

🌟 Accessibility: This venue is a walk-up and may not be accessible to all.

DRESS CODE

The theme for this event is SPARKLE, GLOW, & SHINE (shades of blue, pink, and purple encouraged 🩷💜💙).

Wear lingerie, harnesses, bodysuits, robes - any thoughtful outfit really to help you express yourself. ((Think sequins, shimmery temporary tattoos, neon/reflective wear, gems, bedazzle, etc.))

— BUT!!!! Please be mindful to avoid loose glitter or other messy items our crew would spend hours sweeping up after the fun is done)).

🚫 No boring streetwear like sweats or jeans — There is a changing area for those who need it.

Safety Culture

👋 Safety Speech: As an opening ritual, the host “sets the container” by going over safety & consent culture, behavior expectations, and guidelines to optimize the experience for yourself and others.

👀 Facilitators & Guardians: Knowledgeable, approachable, and dedicated to ensuring a fun and safe(r) environment.

💪 Opt-In Engagement: Everyone engages according to their own comfort level. You can engage, observe, or simply enjoy the atmosphere.

❤️‍🩹 Resources for your Comfort: We encourage folks to actively monitor and manage their own energy. Triggers like social anxiety, jealousy, overstimulation are totally normal at events like this. Utilize our Guardians, low-stim room, educational resources for your comfort.

⚠️ We reserve the right to remove anyone whose actions breach our Community Guidelines, misalign with our values, or jeopardize the integrity of this container. Please honor this privileged space and treat it with the care you would your own home.

IMPORTANT NOTICE

It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: kink activities & intimacy are inherently risky. Safety is something that requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you understand and accept both known and unknown risks and commit to conducting your own risk management. You also agree to be proactive about communication and education. By attending, you agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur. Keeping with Eventbrite guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup style, explicit, or pornographic. This includes educational workshops and/or a themed social gathering and experience with both theory and practical elements as explained in the details above.

🌐 More details & community guidelines: PagansParadise.com
📧 Questions? Concerns? Email us at UGFnYW5zUGFyYWRpc2VOWUMgfCBnbWFpbCAhIGNvbQ==
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Agenda


🕑: 07:30 PM - 08:00 PM
Doors Open

🕑: 08:00 PM - 10:00 PM
Connection Circle
Host: Nix

Info: Discussion and sharing perspectives on various topics around exploring sexuality. This may include:

Navigating common fears & internalized shame

Best practices for exploration & integration

Do’s and Don’ts

Queer Awakening Stories

…and more!

🕑: 10:00 PM
Special Performance
Host: Venatrix

🕑: 10:15 PM
Safety Speech
Host: Nix

Info: As an opening ritual, the host “sets the container” by going over safety & consent culture, behavior expectations, and guidelines to optimize the experience for yourself and others.

🕑: 11:00 PM - 12:00 AM
Skill-share
Host: Community-Driven

Info: Like an open-mic, the floor will be open for folks to give 5 minute presentations on ways to give pleasure - meant to spark ideas, build skill, and increase confidence. *****(If you know you’d like to present ahead of time, feel free to send in diagrams / powerpoint for the projector! Yes, really - we know how serious some of you are!)

🕑: 12:00 AM
Ki$$ing Booth
Host: Community-Driven

Info: you can either get in line or sit in the hot-seat (as always, consent guidelines apply)

🕑: 12:30 AM
Event-Exclusive Truth-or-Dare
Host: Venatrix

Info: Gather around for a version of Truth or Dare specifically designed to bring out your queerest confessions… or dare to try something new!

Virtual Post-Event Integration Call
Host: Nix

Info: Time & Date TBD (will be voted on & announced)

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