# Event Details - **Event Name**: The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations - **Event Start and End Date**: Thu, 09 Jul, 2026 at 06:00 pm – Thu, 06 Aug, 2026 at 06:00 pm - **Event Description**: The real edge behind effective negotiation, mediation, and high-stakes communication.About this EventMost negotiation training focuses on what to say. The Unhooked Negotiator focuses on what happens before you speak.Because when pressure changes what you perceive, it changes what you choose.Have you ever left a charged conversation thinking:Why did I agree to that?Why did I explain so much?Why did I go blank?Why did I get sharp?Why did I soften when I knew the answer was no?Why didn’t I say what I actually saw?That moment is not just a communication issue.Under pressure, a hook can distort your perception before you ever choose your words.Silence can feel like rejection.Disagreement can feel like danger.Urgency can feel like obligation.Confidence can feel like dominance.Disappointment can feel like your responsibility to fix.And once perception is distorted, your next move is already being shaped.The pattern may be negotiating before you are.The Unhooked Negotiator is a 90-minute in-person somatic lab plus one private resolution session with Stephanie Dawn Clark.In the somatic lab, you’ll move through guided partner-based rounds with time to notice and journal between each round. You’ll begin to identify and map what happens in your system when pressure enters the room.In the private resolution session, you’ll bring what you discovered into resolution-level nervous system work.The purpose is to resolve the prediction, trigger, or pressure pattern underneath the automatic move, so the same pressure no longer produces the same response.This is not a tactics workshop.It is not script practice.It is not traditional role-play.It is a somatic lab plus private resolution work for professionals whose work depends on staying true to what they perceive inside charged conversations.What Is an Impeccable Move?An impeccable move is not a perfect move.It is a move made with fidelity to what you actually perceive and intend.Not from the pressure to explain.Not from the impulse to appease.Not from the need to regain control.Not from the fear of someone’s reaction.Not from the unconscious pattern that takes over before you have chosen.An impeccable move is the move that becomes available when the hook is no longer distorting the conversation from underneath.What Happens in the Somatic LabYou’ll move through guided rounds of partner-based practice. Each round uses a simple pressure cue so you can notice what happens before your next move.Pressure cues may include:SilenceDisagreementUrgencyAuthorityConfidenceExpectationEye contactTensionRelational presenceBetween rounds, you’ll have time to journal privately about what you noticed:What cue affected you?What changed in your body?What happened to your perception?What move did your system want to make?Did you want to explain, soften, push, rush, freeze, defer, withdraw, perform, appease, or regain control?The goal is not to perform a negotiation. The goal is to identify and map the pressure pattern that is already shaping the negotiation before you speak.What Happens in the Private Resolution SessionThe private session, conducted online via Google Meet, is where the work becomes individualized.You bring what you discovered in the lab: the cue, the pressure response, the automatic impulse, or the moment where your system started moving before you consciously chose.Together, we use resolution-level nervous system work to resolve the prediction, trigger, or pressure pattern underneath that response.This is not coaching.It is not advice.It is not a debrief.It is not a review of your whole history.It is not learning a better script.The purpose is resolution. We address the pattern at the level where it is operating, so the same pressure no longer has to produce the same automatic move.No reliving required.No performance required.No need to have the whole story figured out.Who This Is ForThis workshop is designed for professionals, practitioners, and leaders whose work depends on staying grounded in what they perceive inside charged conversations, including:MediatorsCoachesConsultantsCounselors and practitionersFounders and business ownersReal estate professionalsSales and client-facing professionalsManagers and team leadersHR and people professionalsAnyone navigating negotiation, mediation, conflict, repair, leadership, money conversations, client dynamics, or high-stakes communicationWhat You’ll Leave WithThis is not just a workshop. It is a somatic lab plus private resolution work.After the lab, you’ll leave with:A more accurate read on how pressure affects your body, perception, timing, and next moveA private map of the cues that affect you mostMore awareness of the automatic moves that show up under pressureA focused direction for your private resolution sessionA practical way to notice what is happening before you speak, concede, explain, soften, push, freeze, perform, or decideAfter the online private resolution session, the intention is that you leave with:At least one of those pressure patterns resolvedMore room where the automatic move used to happenMore steadiness before you answerMore access to your perception when pressure enters the roomMore ability to make the move that is actually yoursThis is the real edge behind effective communication:Not just knowing what to say.Having access to yourself when it matters.DetailsThis is an intentionally small group designed for guided practice, private reflection, and individualized resolution work.Registration includes:90-minute in-person somatic labOne private resolution session with Stephanie Dawn Clark, conducted via Google MeetSimple integration worksheetThis workshop will run with a minimum of 4 participants.LogisticsThis is an in-person workshop in Tulsa, Oklahoma.Please plan to arrive a few minutes early so we can begin on time.This workshop is seated and does not require movement, traditional role-play, prior somatic experience, or public personal disclosure.Exact room and check-in details will be sent to registered participants before the workshop. - **Event URL**: https://allevents.in/tulsa/the-unhooked-negotiator-impeccable-moves-in-high-stakes-conversations/100001991949374200 - **Event Categories**: workshops - **Interested Audience**: - total_interested_count: 0 - **Event Highlights**: - Age Limit: 21+ - door_time: 2026-07-09T22:50:00Z - Duration: 1 hour 30 minutes - Location: Herman & Kate Kaiser YMCA - Languages: English ## Ticket Details - **Ticket Price Range**: min: 195.77, max: 195.77, currency: USD ## Event venue details - **city**: Tulsa - **state**: OK - **country**: United States - **location**: Herman & Kate Kaiser YMCA - **lat**: 36.0852219 - **long**: -96.00313659999999 - **full address**: Herman & Kate Kaiser YMCA, 5400 South Olympia Avenue, Tulsa, United States ## Event gallery - **Alt text**: The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations - **Image URL**: https://cdn-az.allevents.in/events8/banners/2a8bd4b6d0441fa4f8e6586d124f71685c91becceab7c4bdf94ff2a13e3e59be-rimg-w1200-h600-dc061525-gmir.jpg?v=1781638342 ## FAQs - **Q**: When and where is The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations being held? - **A:** The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations takes place on Thu, 09 Jul, 2026 at 06:00 pm to Thu, 06 Aug, 2026 at 06:00 pm at Herman & Kate Kaiser YMCA, 5400 South Olympia Avenue, Tulsa, United States. - **Q**: Is there an age restriction for The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations? - **A:** The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations is strictly for guests aged 21 and above. Valid government-issued photo ID is required for entry. Guests under 21 will not be admitted. The event will be presented in English. - **Q**: Who is organizing The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations? - **A:** The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations is organized by Stephanie Dawn Clark. - **Q**: Who is this event for? Is it right for me? - **A:** The Unhooked Negotiator: Impeccable Moves in High-Stakes Conversations is ideal for curious learners, students, and skill-builders looking to gain hands-on knowledge and practical expertise in a focused, interactive setting. Whether you're a first-time attendee or a longtime enthusiast in Tulsa, this event is thoughtfully curated to deliver a standout experience worth every moment. 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Today, she applies that systems-level perception to human patterns, communication, leadership, relational dynamics, and the nervous system.Through The Sovereign Self, Stephanie offers private neurosomatic work, essays, and experiential labs designed to help people move beyond insight into resolution-level change.The Unhooked Negotiator is her professional somatic lab for the edge behind effective negotiation, mediation, and high-stakes communication." } ] } ] ```