# Event Details - **Event Name**: HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics - **Event Start and End Date**: Sun, 26 Apr, 2026 at 07:00 pm – Sun, 26 Apr, 2026 at 09:00 pm (-04:00) - **Event Description**: A facilitated discussion exploring cuckold dynamics through the lenses of consent, power, communication, and lived experience.About this EventThis Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.About the ClassConversations on Cuckold Dynamics is a discussion-based, sex-positive exploration of cuckolding as an umbrella term for a range of consensual relationship and power-exchange dynamics, including stag/vixen, hotwife, cuckqueaning, and related configurations. This workshop focuses on meaning-making, communication, emotional experience, and the many ways people thoughtfully and ethically engage with these dynamics.Together, we will explore common motivations and curiosities that draw people toward cuckold and adjacent dynamics, including themes of desire, power, compersion, voyeurism, vulnerability, and fantasy. We will also look at the wide spectrum of ways these dynamics can show up, from in-person experiences to long-distance and virtual forms of engagement.The space will be guided by discussion prompts and attendees are welcome to listen, ask questions, and share perspectives or lived experiences in a supportive, nonjudgmental environment.Topics will include:Cuckolding as an umbrella term and how it overlaps with related dynamicsConsent, negotiation, boundaries, and ongoing communicationEmotional considerations such as jealousy, reassurance, and aftercareMyths and stereotypes versus lived realitiesDifferent ways people structure and customize these dynamicsParticipants will leave with a clearer understanding of the diversity within cuckold and related dynamics, practical language for discussing interests and boundaries, and a more normalized, nuanced framework for thinking about this area of consensual non-monogamy and power exchange.About the FacilitatorNikita Fernandes (she/her) is a Psychotherapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. A queer, kinky person of color, she offers culturally sensitive, poly- and kink-affirming, and gender-affirming therapy for individuals, relationships, and non-monogamous groups. Grounded in evidence-based, trauma-informed care, Nikita centers self-compassion in the face of systemic oppression. She holds a dual master’s degree from NYU and has been featured in HuffPost and Feeld.FAQsFAQ: what should I bring?Note-taking materials, an open mindFAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?) everyoneFAQ: what should I wear?Whatever makes you happy that won't get you arrested on the subway (no nudity, except under your clothes)FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?Everyone is welcome in any combinationSTAY IN TOUCH!✨ Instagram @hitmeupnycity✨Join our public newsletter✨ Support HMU -- We're On Patreon. Many of you have asked how you can help out! Other than spreading the word, attending parties and volunteering, becoming a patron is an opportunity to help us succeed — while receiving special perks in the meantime. Interested in becoming a patron? Click here.✨Volunteers: Limited volunteer spots available. Please email admin@hitmeupnyc.com to express interest.✨Location: 120 Walker St in Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email hello@hitmeupnyc.com if you need any accessibility accommodations.✨Full vaccination is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.✨Membership: We reserve the right to refuse entry if needed. Hit Me Up also hosts private events which are invite only, and anyone new to Hit Me Up must apply and be approved to attend—no guests or plus ones. Please visit https://www.hitmeupnyc.com/join to join. You are welcome to inquire as to your status or that of your friends, but please do not act as if you have an entitlement to access our space or members. Building special spaces is hard, and while we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community. If you'd like to sponsor a new member please have them apply as soon as possible. If they wait until a few days before the event we cannot guarantee they will be able to be approved in time.✨Please stay home if you are feeling ill or if you have had recent close contact with someone who tested Covid positive (within the past 5 days). You could be incubating and still test negative. Any requests for refunds for any reason will be honored up to the day of the event. Remember: safe, sane, and sanitary Just email hello@hitmeupnyc.com and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.✨Consent Policy: All of our events are ASK FIRST events. The rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. You will be responsible for reading our consent policy and behaving appropriately. Read our consent policy in full: https://www.hitmeupnyc.com/consent. If you have questions, want to make a report, or need support, please contact our third party consent reporting service, available at consent@hitmeupnyc.com. - **Event URL**: https://allevents.in/new-york/hmu-academy-conversations-on-cckolding-dynamics/100001981966314600 - **Event Categories**: workshops, volunteering, parties, entertainment - **Interested Audience**: - total_interested_count: 0 - **Event Highlights**: - Duration: 2 hours - Location: 120 Walker St floor 5 - Languages: English ## Ticket Details - **Ticket Price Range**: min: 39.02, max: 49.31, currency: USD ## Event venue details - **city**: New York - **state**: NY - **country**: United States - **location**: 120 Walker St floor 5 - **lat**: 40.7176017 - **long**: -73.9997659 - **full address**: 120 Walker St floor 5, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States ## Event gallery - **Alt text**: HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics - **Image URL**: https://cdn-az.allevents.in/events8/banners/ca34bc48ebedbf821faa0b8fe36344a3bb31785c90fb4e75028b40898247b3cd-rimg-w1200-h600-dc1a1107-gmir.jpg?v=1772220913 ## FAQs - **Q**: When and where is HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics being held? - **A:** HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics takes place on Sun, 26 Apr, 2026 at 07:00 pm to Sun, 26 Apr, 2026 at 09:00 pm at 120 Walker St floor 5, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States. - **Q**: Who is organizing HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics? - **A:** HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics is organized by Hit Me Up. - **Q**: Who is this event for? Is it right for me? - **A:** HMU Academy: Conversations on C*ckolding Dynamics is ideal for curious learners, students, and skill-builders looking to gain hands-on knowledge and practical expertise in a focused, interactive setting. Whether you're a first-time attendee or a longtime enthusiast in New York, this event is thoughtfully curated to deliver a standout experience worth every moment. 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