

# Event Details

- **Event Name**: Kinks, communication and connection: Busting your myths about sexuality
- **Event Start and End Date**: Mon, 02 Feb, 2026 at 06:30 pm – Mon, 02 Feb, 2026 at 10:00 pm
- **Event Description**: Pub Psychology:  Drinks, talk &amp; networking.About this EventTo note: You'll be able to send questions anonymously to the speaker before this event.What you'll learnHow do desire and relationships work?You'll explore what research suggests about desire, arousal and sexual decision-making, and why these don’t always align neatly (e.g., wanting vs doing; arousal vs consent). This includes how context, stress, mood, health, and relationship dynamics shape sexual experience and satisfaction.What are “kinks”?You'll get an understanding of what people mean by kinks and sexual preferences, including how common sexual diversity is and how psychologists distinguish fantasies and behaviours. How do you separate evidence-based definitions from common myths and stigma?Communication: Practical skills grounded in evidenceThe talk will cover straightforward, research-informed tools for talking about sex: how to start the conversation, make and receive requests, negotiate boundaries, and handle mismatched desires without shame or coercion. The talk also discusses broader relational communication strategies useful for all interpersonal relationships.Reimagining sexual and relational health: from “normal vs abnormal” to wellbeing and connectionHow does contemporary research challenge simplistic ideas of what’s “normal,” and frame sexual health in a different way? You'll learn how sexual self-knowledge can support healthier relationships and better mental wellbeing in intersectional contexts such as disability, relationship structures, and sexual/gender diversity.The SpeakerDr Ashley BrownAshley Brown is a Lecturer in Psychology (Education) in the Department of Psychology at King's College, London at the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology &amp; Neuroscience. She co-leads the LGBTQ+ Mental Health Research Group and teaches across the Psychology BSc and Health Psychology MSc. Dr Brown is a Fellow of Advance HE and centres diversity and evidence-based practice in her teaching.Her research is focused on sexual functioning and distress in minoritised populations, such as people with long term health conditions (LTCs) and who are transgender and gender diverse. She also works in scale development and psychometric assessment.Clinically, Dr Brown works as a counsellor at cliniQ, a clinic for trans, nonbinary, and gender diverse people that works in partnership with King’s College Hospital.The Agenda18:30-19:30 - Arrivals &amp; structured networking/ice-breakersArrive, mingle and grab drinks. You'll have more time than ever before to meet others. You'll be moving between tables in small groups discussing intriguing discussion/ice-breaker questions (optional). If you want to meet like-minded professionals you're welcome to join. This part of the event's ideal for anyone who works (or aspires to work) in psychology, neuroscience, education, healthcare or related fields. We'll also have an interactive pub psychology quiz in groups using your mobile phone.19:30-20:20- 'TED style' talkLearn something new. You'll get printed handouts from the Powerpoint slides and ticket holders will get a recording of the talk after the event (subject to agreement from the speaker/capacity in our team).20:10 - 20:40 - Q and AQuestion time - the chance to ask your questions about this topic and anything else you'd like to know with our expert speaker.20:40 - 22:00 - Networking mingleInformally meet our speaker and other likeminded people, continuing conversations, drinks, sharing knowledge and reflections. Whether you've got a personal or professional interest, anyone who wants to connect with young professionals is welcome to join! This is a great way to expand your social and professional network.The VenueYou'll have exclusive use of the private 'Green Room' (upstairs) at the Star of Kings pub - just a 5 minute walk from Kings Cross train/tube station. Further details about the pub can be found here.This pub has a lovely array of craft beers, cocktails and soft drinks. The pub recently updated its menu to include a range of burgers from award-winning 'Filthy Buns'. You'll also be a short stroll from a number of restaurants around Kings Cross.One of the few traditional pubs in Kings Cross, the Star of Kings boasts a large beer garden and classic arcade games downstairs.FAQs – Pub psychology eventsWho attends these events?This event is open to anyone regardless of religion, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation or gender. Many attendees have a professional interest working (or aspiring to work) in psychology, neuroscience, healthcare, counselling, wellness and wellbeing, education or related fields. You're also welcome to come along if you have a personal interest in the subject matter. This is an ideal way to expand your social and professional network.Will you sell tickets on the door?No! All our tickets are sold before the event so please don't arrive on the day without a ticket as you'll be turned away. Pub psychology events are popular and tend to sell-out. Please get a ticket in advance!I’m not sure if I’ll arrive in time after work. Should I still come?Yes! If you have a ticket, please come whenever you can (ideally before the talk begins). For pub psychology events, most talks begin 1 hour after the scheduled start time. This gives you time to settle in, network with others and grab a drink or food. Please double check the event agenda on Ticket Tailor (the platform we use to sell tickets) as times vary depending on the event.Will I be able to network?Yes! You're welcome to come along if you've got a personal or professional interest and/or want to meet new people. Based on feedback, we’ve added loads of new opportunities for mingling. Many people attend alone and please do reach out if you want to be introduced to anyone or need support. For pub psychology events, we recommend arriving early for ice breakers. We’ll also have a pub psychology quiz arranged in groups and there’s always a friendly group of us who’ll stay for drinks afterwards.Can I come just for the talk?Absolutely! If you'd prefer to come along for just the expert 'TED style' talk (skipping the networking/mingling bits) you're more than welcome to arrive later and before the talk begins. Please keep in mind all seats are unreserved.Are you on social media?Yes - we are! Join our Whatsapp group to hear about the latest events: WhatsApp Group InviteYou can also follow us on Instagram: @Conn8ctingAbout usWant to learn about psychology, neuroscience and healthcare while meeting like-minded people in London? You're in the right place. Exclusive educational talks and mingling events for young professionals. Conn8cting 'TED style' talks are ideal for anyone with a professional or personal interest in the topics and want to meet likeminded people.Our talks cover every topic you can think of. From the psychology of laughter, happiness, decision-making and regret to psychosis, narcissism, incels, drugs and psychopaths. You'll learn interesting stuff delivered by experts, in-person.Learn something new, meet someone new.?Agenda?: 06:30 PM - 07:30 PMArrivals &amp; structured networking/ice-breakersInfo: Arrive, mingle and grab drinks. You'll be in small groups discussing intriguing discussion/ice-breaker questions (optional). If you want to meet like-minded professionals you're welcome to join. This part of the event's ideal for anyone who works (or aspires to work) in psychology, neuroscience, education, healthcare or related fields. ?: 07:30 PM - 08:20 PM'TED style' talkInfo: Learn something new.?: 08:20 PM - 08:50 PMQ and AInfo: Question time - the chance to ask your questions about this topic and anything else you'd like to know with our expert speaker.?: 08:50 PM - 10:00 PMNetworking mingleInfo: Informally meet our speaker and other likeminded people, continuing conversations, drinks, sharing knowledge and reflections. Whether you've got a personal or professional interest, anyone who wants to connect with professionals is welcome to join! This is a great way to expand your social and professional network.
- **Event URL**: https://allevents.in/london/kinks-communication-and-connection-busting-your-myths-about-sexuality/100001981710669960
- **Event Categories**: health-wellness, contests, sports, meetups, nonprofit, pub-crawl, lgbt-pride, mental-health
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## Ticket Details

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- **Ticket Price Range**: min: 38.62, max: 38.62, currency: GBP

## Event venue details

- **city**: London
- **state**: EN
- **country**: United Kingdom
- **location**: The Star of Kings
- **lat**: 51.5363747
- **long**: -0.1219688
- **full address**: The Star of Kings, 126 York Way, London, United Kingdom

## Event Organizer details

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- **organizer**: Conn8cting - psychology talks and social (https://allevents.in/org/conn8cting-psychology-talks-and-social/23447997)

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## FAQs

- **Q**: When is the event happening?
  - **A:** Mon, 02 Feb, 2026 at 06:30 pm
- **Q**: Where is the event happening?
  - **A:** The Star of Kings, 126 York Way, London, United Kingdom
- **Q**: What is the ticket price?
  - **A:** starting from 38.62 up to 38.62 GBP
- **Q**: Who is organizing the event?
  - **A:** Conn8cting - psychology talks and social
- **Q**: What type of event is this?
  - **A:** health-wellness, contests, sports, meetups, nonprofit, pub-crawl, lgbt-pride, mental-health
- **Q**: Where can I find ticket details about Kinks, communication and connection: Busting your myths about sexuality ?
  - **A:** You can find ticket details about this event on AllEvents.

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