HOW NOT TO LET LONELINESS LEAD YOU INTO A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
Loneliness is real. And if you're not careful, it can lead you straight into the arms of someone who was never meant to hold your heart.
Loneliness tells you,
“Maybe she’ll change” or
“Maybe he just needs more time.”
It makes you choose familiarity over fulfillment, and temporary relief over lasting peace.
But here’s the truth:
Loneliness is not a strong enough reason to enter a relationship—and definitely not a good reason to stay in a toxic one.
Here are 5 practical ways to avoid that trap:
1. Don’t confuse attention for intention.
Someone showing up doesn’t mean they’re showing up with purpose. Ask yourself: Are they here to build with me—or just to fill a gap in their own life (or mine)?
2. Learn to sit with your feelings without trying to fix them with people.
Loneliness is a human experience. But trying to numb it with emotional attachment can lead to regret. Learn to process it in healthy ways—through prayer, purpose, community, and growth.
3. Don’t date to escape emptiness.
If your motivation for starting a relationship is to avoid being alone, you're more likely to overlook major red flags. Love isn’t an escape; it’s a responsibility.
4. Stay rooted in your identity.
Whether you're a man or a woman, you are whole, loved, and valuable in God. Your worth is not tied to your relationship status, and the right person will never require you to shrink to be accepted.
5. Invite wise counsel.
You need people around you who can see what love-blindness won’t let you see. Surround yourself with mentors, pastors, or coaches who won’t just hype you up—but will hold you accountable.
Here’s the truth:
The enemy loves to prey on loneliness. But God wants to guide you with clarity and peace.
You don’t have to settle out of fear.
You don’t have to stay stuck in confusion.
There’s a better way—and we want to show you.
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JOIN OUR FREE WEBINAR FOR SINGLES!
“The 7 Red Flags Christians Often Ignore in Dating”
—Gain clarity. Avoid regrets. Choose wisely.
You’ll learn how to:
✔️Discern red flags that many ignore until it’s too late
✔️Avoid emotional traps that disguise themselves as love
✔️Make dating decisions that align with your faith, values, and future
Date: SAT May 24th, 2025
Time: 6pm WAT
Venue: Google Meet (Link sent after registration)
Powered by: MBA for Singles and Married
Both men and women are welcome. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or confused—this session will help you make wiser decisions.
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