Death Cafe La Mesa - A Special Remembrance Gathering

At a Death Cafe, people—often strangers—come together to enjoy treats, sip tea, and openly discuss death. Our goal is to encourage greater awareness of death, helping us all to live more fully in the time we have.

We’re creating a warm, welcoming space where you can engage in meaningful conversations about a subject that, while often considered taboo, connects us all. Whether you’ve faced death personally or are simply curious about your own mortality, you’ll find authentic, lively discussions with individuals from diverse backgrounds.

Our gatherings are led by volunteer facilitators, with the aim of fostering positive, thoughtful dialogue within a supportive community. By coming together as a community, we forge meaningful connections that honor our shared curiosity about death.

A Special Remembrance Gathering
Bring a photo or memento and share a story about someone who has touched your life. Sharing is always optional; you’re welcome to simply join our circle, listen, and take in the love woven through the stories of others. Together, we’ll create a space of remembrance, connection, and celebration of lives that continue to shape us.

FAQ:

Is this a support or therapy group?
No, this is a volunteer-based community discussion group.
Is there a fee to attend?
Nope! Death Cafe is a free event hosted by volunteers. If you'd like to support our gatherings, we welcome your donations. Our venmo account is @thedeathnetwork.
Is there parking?
Yes, there is a parking lot, and it's OK to part at the Social Security Admin building next door.
Will food and drinks be provided?
Water, tea, coffee and a small tasty treat will be available.
Please bring your water bottle or favorite mug for tea.
Is this event for kids?
No, Death Cafe is an adult only gathering.
Do I have to share?
Our Death Cafe is lively and collaborative, we hope you feel comfortable sharing but it’s not a requirement.

Please plan to arrive a few minutes early, we will begin promptly at 11:30. Given the sensitive nature of our discussions, late arrivals can disrupt the flow of conversation.
Thank you, we look forward to meeting you!
Please email questions to aGVsbG8gfCBkb2RlYXRoZGlmZmVyZW50ICEgY29t.( http://hello@dodeathdifferent.com./) Follow us @thedeathnetwork( https://www.instagram.com/thedeathnetwork/)

Photography Notice: Photos may be taken at the Death Network event for marketing purposes. If you prefer not to be included in any photos, please inform your host before the event. Thank you!

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